February is Teen Dating Violence Awareness Month

Recognizing the Shadows: A Guide to Navigating Teen Dating Violence

 February marks a crucial month in our calendar—Teen Dating Violence Awareness Month. Voices of a Tamar | Our Voices Our Stories, stands firm in our commitment to shed light on the often-hidden aspects of teen relationships that can lead to trauma. As a spiritually inspired organization, we focus on reaching out to individuals having experienced traumatic adversities and recognizing the significance of safe healing spaces. Community support, positive interactions, and education are vital for teens and young adults to overcome challenges and build healthy relationships. These resources provide guidance and tools for success. Investing in our young people cultivates capable leaders who positively impact their communities. 

Understanding Teen Dating Violence

Teen dating violence (TDV) encompasses a spectrum of abusive behaviors used by one person in a relationship to control the other. It can manifest physically, emotionally, sexually, or digitally. Recognizing the signs is the first step toward intervention and healing.

Warning Signs in Relationships

  • Physical Abuse: Unexplained bruises or injuries, or wearing clothing to cover them.

  • Emotional Abuse: Constant belittlement, jealousy, and attempts to isolate the victim from friends and family.

  • Sexual Abuse: Coercing or attempting to coerce any sexual contact without consent.

  • Digital Abuse: Using technology to control, stalk, or harass the partner.

Warning Signs in Teens Experiencing Violence

  • Sudden changes in behavior or mood.

  • Decreased interest in activities they once enjoyed.

  • Unexplained marks or injuries.

  • Increased secrecy, especially regarding their relationship.

Solutions for Those within the Relationship

For Victims

  • Recognize the Abuse: Understanding that what you're experiencing is not healthy or deserved is the first step.

  • Seek Support: Reach out to trusted adults, friends, or support services. "Voices of a Tamar" offers resources and a compassionate community to help guide you through this process.

  • Safety Plan: Consider creating a safety plan that includes safe places to go, people to call, and ways to remain safe online and offline.

For Perpetrators

  • Acknowledge the Behavior: Recognizing that your actions are harmful is a critical first step.

  • Seek Help: It's important to seek professional help to understand the root causes of your behavior and learn healthier ways to relate to others.

Solutions for Witnesses

  • Speak Up: If you see signs of TDV among your peers, it's important to speak up. Talk to a trusted adult or contact a support service.

  • Support the Victim: Offer your support to the victim without judgment. Let them know you're there for them and encourage them to seek help.

  • Educate Yourself: Understanding the dynamics of teen dating violence can make you a more effective ally.

 As we navigate the complexities of teen relationships, it's important to remember that love should never hurt. Voices of Tamar | Our Voices Our Stories strongly believe in the power of education, support, and community to intervene and prevent dating violence among teens and young adults. This February, let's commit to shed light on this issue, extend support to those affected, and promote healthy relationships for everyone.

 Need Help? 

Call Voices of Tamar (512) 766-1402 or send an email to voicesoftamarorg@gmail.com

Call the National Domestic Violence Hotline 800-799-7233 (available 24/7)